Chris and I have not always been great about getting OUT for dates. But this year, we have had A LOT of visitors, and we decided to do something we never do--ask people to watch the kids when they stayed here so we could get a few dates. People were fairly happy to oblige, and we were excited to be able to plan some fun dates together. Our anniversary was a few days ago and we are stretching out the celebrating. We were able to sneak out for a very fancy dinner date (thanks to the generosity of my grandmother as well as willing babysitters) about a week prior to our 9 year anniversary. Chris found the fancy restaurant and I was to plan some fun for before dinner.
First we headed to the local library and checked out a few books on their "books and brew" list (where they pair a local beer with a book). We are currently working through one of the books together in the evenings.
Next we headed to a church not far from the restaurant Mary, Mother of God. Unfortunately the church building was locked so we couldn't get in to see the lovely church and say a rosary together there. That's the back of the church. boo. :( Oh well, we will try it another time.

Chris found us a place to snag a drink before dinner and take a silly selfie

And then we walked over to our dinner venue. It was AMAZING.
My grandmother gives us a generous anniversary gift each year and we always end up using the money to help out with something that broke around the house or something far more practical anyway...
This year, we decided to do something for us and have a new, fun experience together. So we did a very fancy dinner in which there were 5 courses (but they ended up giving us a few extra on top of that making it more like 7 courses) each paired with a wine. Normally I don't share a bunch of pictures of food, but this was amazing and truly a work of art. So I am sharing in case any of you find food to be as interesting as we do.
It was divine.
The menu
This is a radish, covered in delicious-ness. It was an "extra"
First course--octopus (read a bit of the descriptions above on that menu for a more full picture of what this involved). It was our favorite of the 7 courses. The salsa verde (the green dollops in the picture) had incredible flavor.
The next course was tomatoes with a bunch of extra goodness. Very delicious.
The pasta course was filled with ground veal and had a browned butter sage sauce. Tasted like a hint of fall. Mmmmm.
Next was a fancy sea bass course. This was my second favorite of the courses. Words can't describe the flavors married together on that dish.
Another "extra" -- some kind of berry cup. It was sweet and served with tiny spoons. Super cute.
Dessert was essentially a really fancy peaches and cream dish. Fancy indeed, there are lavender meringue pieces in there. :) It was very tasty, but I had to have Chris help me finish it because I was so full from the other courses.
We had a blast.
On our actual anniversary was a couple days ago and we were able to meet up with a Steubenville friend who is becoming a Dominican priest in the spring, Br. Timothy Danaher.
We chatted and caught up (we haven't seen him since he was a novice in Cincinnati, 7 years ago). And then Kayla and Br. Tim recited poetry to each other. Tim recited some works for her (not his own) and she recited two that we've been memorizing during morning time recently, "The Village Blacksmith" and "The Swing". And then Tim just started making up rhymes to make her laugh. It was time well spent indeed.
Fr. Ben Croell (who was at Chris' childhood parish for a time) was also out in the area (he and another Dominican priest and Br. Tim were putting on a mission), so we got to visit with him briefly as well.
Fr. Ben gave us a special anniversary blessing and blessed us with the oil of St. Joseph and gave the whole family a blessing as well. What a wonderful way to spend the afternoon for our 9th anniversary.
Later that evening local friends offered to watch the kids if we wanted to get out, so we said sure. We had a few breweries we had been interested in trying out together. So we went and had a few drinks out and then came home and had a little "dinner in" after the kids were asleep.
Happy 9th Anniversary, Chris! I can hardly believe we've been married that long. When God brought us together 12 years ago, I knew you were special, but I could never have foreseen the fun we'd have together and the many memories we'd make. Life (and marriage) is certainly filled with struggle, but we've also been blessed with an outpouring of love and joy through it all. Thanks for doing life with me, for better or worse, in sickness and health, till death do us part. I love you.











































